This is why effective conflict management with clients is critical to your success as a meeting planner. Here are some common scenarios, and the best ways to handle them.
1) You’ve planned an event with an expectation of 800 attendees, and the client turns around a week before the event and tells you to prepare for 200 more.
Initial reaction: “WHAT!?! How am I going to accommodate room blocks? Catering? Seating?”
How to approach the client: “I understand your need to accommodate more attendees, but as you know, we have very limited space at these venues and hotels. I’m going to check with our vendors to see exactly what their capacity is, then get back with you. We’ll do the best we can to take care of as many people as we can”.
Why this works: Demonstration of a good faith effort, while also maintaining realistic expectations. Clients expect that you’ll go the extra mile for them, but they have to know you’re not Superman / Wonder Woman.
2) Too many cooks in the kitchen. The client has multiple people giving you mixed messages about how the event should go.
Initial reaction: “How can these people be serious about a great event when they can’t even get on the same page?”
How to approach the client: “Let’s set up a time to chat with all of the stakeholders in person or via conference call. Each of you present the three most important things you want to see accomplished. We’ll find the common ground, and work inside out from there. Then we’ll put the points of contention to discussion, where we’ll break down the value and challenges each present.”
Why this works: Marginalizing anyone, even if most others agree, can create toxicity in the planning process. Making everyone feel like a valued stakeholder will encourage their participation in a positive, productive way and make everything smoother.”
3) Budget expectations are constantly shifting and putting you in a difficult spot with vendors.
Initial reaction: “What do they want from me? A free event? This is ridiculous.”
How to approach the client: “We initially discussed what we want to accomplish with x, y and z budget parameters, and I went out and sourced vendors based on these numbers. I have strong relationships with these vendors and need to keep them strong to ensure a great event for you. What are the things you want to focus on the most? Let’s keep budget integrity there. I want your most important priorities to receive the most attention.”
Why this works: The client needs to appreciate that there are many spokes on the wheel involved with making THEIR event great. If not for you, understanding that constantly shifting expectations can put their event behind the 8 ball will motivate them to better communicate what resources are available. Always make it about them and their event.
At the end of the day, effectively managing conflicts with clients comes down to making them feel valued regardless of the circumstance, putting the success of their event front and center in their minds, and setting reasonable expectations. Always keep your cool. Always communicate from a place of reason, and more often than not, you’ll see the same respect reciprocated.
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